Picture Of Ortho Tri-Cyclen oral contraceptives with Ortho Dialpak dispensers (photo taken by self). (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
I remember when a politician would no more say the word “contraceptive” than spit from the podium. I’m beginning to think that the sexual freedom climate, and the freedom to use words like “contraceptive” in public places is more than half-way down the slippery slope we all heard predicted in the 70’s and 80’s from fuddie-duddies and fundamentalists.
The sexual revolution produced an amazing array of sexually transmitted diseases. This means that the little monsters and body snatchers have come out with a vengeance like zombies in a low-budget horror flick. AIDS? Herpes? HPV? PID? HIV? LGV?
The sexual revolution created a massive devaluation of personhood! It cheapened a sacred and powerful God-given urge. I’ve said since High School that the greatest disease of the sexual revolution is hardening of the heart, i.e. an increasing inability to give your heart away. The hurt and calluses, scar tissue and numbness, not to mention the vast number of dumb relationships that form and vast numbers of children harmed by the lack of stable and loving homes, has hardened our hearts and made us less able to have sensitivity to others.
God tells us that if we have sex we become “one” with her (him). In other words, we give our hearts away. Sure, the heart can heal over time, but with increasing sexual activity outside of marriage the heart becomes less involved. The body becomes a machine, efficient, not giving away too much so it hurts much less when rejection strikes. Pandered words like:
- “contraception.”
- “It’s just a biological function.
- “It’s just sex.”
- “It’s just two people doing what is natural.”
remind us daily (hourly?) that sex isn’t anything that special.
Planned Parenthood gives these guidelines about sex:
- “Both people should want to have sex.”
- “Use birth control … “
- “Be clear with each other about what you do and don’t want to do”
– emotions? bonding? heartaches? honor? Planned Parenthood says nothing of these.
The sexual revolution demands a symbol, and it is “The Pill.” For the past fifty years the pill has split off thoughts of giving life from sex. A life-giving, sacramental activity, becomes nothing deeper than two junkyard cats howling in the night. Experts reassure us that superficial is OK, but superficial becomes old and wrinkly, the heart, callused and brittle, and love, artificial. Sex is about the moment. Who cares about the future? Take “the pill.” Lust warps our love without a concern for consequences or improving the lot of the other because “the pill” seems like a perfect “solution.”
The slippery slope is saying, “Give me your lusty, needy, lonely, downtrodden, and let them have sex to cover their pain.” We are more than half-way down it, and what astounds me is the gall to perpetuate sexual freedom myths without the balls to talk about the real problems.
I disagree somewhat with the Catholic church about contraceptives. I have no problem with insurance companies paying for contraceptives, but forcing them to go against their sacred beliefs about oneness, life-giving, sacramental and God-centered beliefs is astounding! The core problem isn’t the prevention of babies, nor the prevention of STD’s, but the problem of fractured hearts and lonely, wrinkled, hopeless, non-sacramental people (what the Catholic Church’s sees happening because of the sexual revolution).
Isn’t the President giving the wrong side of “hope” here?
- I hope I don’t get pregnant?
- I hope I use the right contraceptive?
- I hope this prophylactic works? (Anybody still know what that is???)
- I hope somebody will pay for my sexual freedom?
The right side of sex is “I’m becoming a greater person with this person at my side! I’m helping him/her become more valuable, more loved, more whole! I’m committing my heart, soul, mind, AND body to him/her.
The problem with the contraception controversy is that the band-aid isn’t big enough. Paying for contraceptives to explore the dangerous world of sexual promiscuity without talking about the heart-breaking consequences tells us how far we’ve come down the slippery slope! Seems like we have a society whose heart is hardening. I’d rather see the President spit!
Eph. 4:17-19 So I tell you this, and insist on it in the Lord, that you must no longer live as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking. 18 They are darkened in their understanding and separated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardening of their hearts. 19 Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so as to indulge in every kind of impurity, with a continual lust for more.
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